Funeral Flowers
Frequently Asked Questions
Funeral FAQs
Do I need to use the Funeral Director’s recommended florist?
No, you can order flowers from a florist, or florists, of your choice. Many funeral directors use companies such as Interflora which can be convenient but be mindful that they will both take a cut so in terms of value for money you are probably better off going direct to a florist.
What should I choose?
The choice is huge and I appreciate that it can be overwhelming. Sprays for the coffin are usually chosen by the immediate family. Smaller sprays, wreaths, sheaves and shapes can be given by family and friends. If you’re struggling to decide, I suggest you give me a call and together we can work out what is the best choice. I always recommend thinking about what your loved one liked, what sort of personality they had and how you feel about them – if you focus on these things then colours and styles tend to choose themselves. For further guidance, have a look at my blog which explains the different options.
Are there particular flowers I should or shouldn’t include?
I feel it’s important to choose things that you like, and which mean something to you but, always be mindful that certain flowers and colours are inappropriate in certain culture and religions. Let me know the circumstances and I will make sure your floral tribute is respectful and appropriate. If you’d like to use flowers that hold a particular meaning, then I suggest you check out my information sheet Flower Symbolism
What if I have something personal that I’d like to include?
Then just let me know. Personal touches and keepsakes are what makes funeral flowers so special and I’m very keen to help you accommodate them whether it’s a particular photograph, tie, flower, badge, hat, hair slide, teddy etc.
My loved one was an avid gardener; can I include things from the garden?
Yes absolutely! If you are local then I am more than happy to pop along and help you to choose flowers and foliage that you’d like to include in the tribute.
Can you do eco/sustainable designs suitable for woodland burials?
Yes, natural, foam free designs that totally break down into the earth are available, just give me a call to discuss options.
What if the family say no flowers?
If the family request no flowers or that donations are given to a charity instead then it’s good etiquette to respect those wishes. Perhaps send a sympathy bouquet or arrangement to the family instead.
Will you deliver the flowers?
Yes, flowers are usually delivered to the funeral directors and I will liaise with the funeral director to ensure they are delivered in good time. You can of course collect them if you want to take them in person. Delivery costs will be included in your quote or order.
What area do you deliver to?
I deliver to anywhere within a 15-mile radius of Wokingham.
What if the funeral is early in the morning?
This is not a problem at all. I will liaise with the funeral director and ensure your flowers are there in good time or delivered the night before.
How much notice do you need?
This depends a lot on what you’d like. Flowers such as lilies need plenty of time (a week) to open so that they are perfect on the day, other bespoke shapes and frames can take time to order. However, wreaths, sprays, hearts, lettering can be made with just a couple of days’ notice. It’s best to contact us about as soon as you know the date of the funeral.
